
This is something I have wanted to write about for some time. Life is really about values isn't it? Our behaviour is a function of our beliefs and our values. Most of our daily decisions and activities are based around a value system that has been under ongoing development all of our lives. Some of our values were given to us by our parents and/or surroundings and others we have developed on our own. Some common areas or facets of life include our physical health and vitality, finances, social, family/relationships, spirituality, vocation, and mental development. Each person has their own unique set of values and has their own heirarchy of most important to least important.
The reason I bring this up is is because I get to witness people's values all day long. I have my own and I don't believe it is necessary to impose my values on anyone else but rather accept where others are and respect each person's own wishes and desires. Our practice has many different types of patients: some come only for pain relief and then choose to discontinue care, others stay for a while longer and discontinue care when their coverage runs out, and another group of people choose to continue with their care beyond pain relief for preventative care. They tend to be in consistently and rarely missed scheduled visits. The interesting thing is that the last group is not necessarily millionaires who have nothing better to do with their time. These are people who value their health. They value the ability to move well now and to move well later. They value their body being in balance and having the nervous system (which controls everything) working in perfect order to benefit their overall health. These are people that despite their hectic lives drive across town and pay for care even when their coverage has run out. Some may say they value their health more than anything but the only way to determine your true set of values is to see where do you spend the most time, energy and money in your life? Behavior never lies. Cindy recently had a quote to have her tooth repaired: $900. Not her TEETH, her TOOTH. Since this is not covered in our health plan we too now have a decision to make based on our values. What could we do with $900, hmmm..... not hard to figure out there is a lot of stuff you could do with this money so our values will determine how we spend that money. THe same is true for most people. When care is recommended to them they have to see how it weighs against their own set of values.
Dr. Jason Plotsky


